“To choose is also to begin.” -Starhawk 1982

That’s it.

The first step is always to make a choice. Pick one, whether it’s a color, a flavor, a career or a path. And GO FOR IT!

I CHOOSE to eat healthy. I choose to pick the honest course of action. I CHOOSE to work out today/go to yoga/meditate/take time for myself.

My friend and I were talking about this exact thing the other day: decisions.

The word decision comes from the latin word”decidere” which means to “cut off”.

as if to choose sides or to cut off an option. This is such a negative way of looking at something. Let’s change the word decision in our every day lives.. lets swap it with the word CHOOSE.

Because this is not to say you can’t pick again. We can always choose again! But we’ve gotta start somewhere.

Generally this is the way my conversations pan out:

Person:”So what do you eat? are you a vegan?”

ME: “well, I am mostly vegan but I eat fish.”

Person: “Wait, whaaattt??”

ME: “I avoid dairy and don’t eat any food that walks around on land. I eat anything that comes from the sea, including fish.”

Person: “But, aren’t you raw?”

ME: “I mostly eat raw. I gravitate mostly towards raw, fresh, organic foods. But if I’m at restaurant with family or friends or on vacation, I’ll eat cooked foods like a piece of baked fish or steamed veggies.”

Person: “I’ve figured it out. You’re a vegetarian, then.”

ME: “No. I don’t eat dairy, and vegetarians do. Plus I eat fish, and vegetarians tend not to eat fish.”

Person: “OHHHH I Get it. You’re a flexitarian!”

ME: “Sure. I’m whatever makes it easiest for you.”

Are you 100% raw?

No, I am not completely raw. I consume a high percentage of raw food, probably somewhere between 75-85%. I will eat steamed veggies, quinoa, brown rice or a piece of sprouted toast with almond butter. If I go out to eat with friends I will have a piece of broiled or steamed fish with veggies and I have quite the sweet tooth. I’ve been known to polish off a fair amount of dessert, but I’ve learned to limit this over time because it just doesn’t make me feel good. Within an hour of eating the sugary dessert I remember why I don’t eat that way every day. I usually share a dessert and then I feel fine, I’m all for moderation of things we enjoy, not restricting.

Are you a vegan?

I probably eat fish once a week, so I’m not a vegan. I’m careful to research the latest eco-friendly and safe options for fish so that I don’t support any sort of negative treatment. It isn’t necessarily an ethical decision, overall I don’t like the taste of meat or the health negatives associated, like high cholesterol and high saturated fats.

When I moved to Los Angeles 7 years ago, I became much more aware of my likes and dislikes, and much more educated about the environmental impact created by eating meat. There is ample evidence in peer-reviewed scientific journals that mammals experience “not just pain, but also mental suffering including fear, anticipation, foreboding, anxiety, stress, terror and trauma,” says Prof Andrew Linzey, director of the Oxford Centre for Animal Ethics and author of Why Animal Suffering Matters. I would go to the farmers Market in Hollywood every Sunday and talk to people in the community and learn. I decided that within myself, I prefer not to potentially bring that emotional poison into my own being, but I absolutely don’t judge others that do. I’ve known since I was a child that I have an extreme sensitivity towards others and energies, and I may just be hyper sensitive to these feelings about animals as well.

I wear leather boots and have a beautiful leather bag, both from a trip to Argentina. My husband’s cousins own a leather company there. I consume raw honey and bee pollen. I make sure all the honey and bee pollen is from a good source where the bees are treated carefully, from local bee farmers. They never transport the bees to pollinate commercial corps, and they embrace traditional, local in-season-only, low stress beekeeping methods that help keep the bees healthy.

Vegan/Vegetarian/Pescatarian/Raw-Pick one!!!!

People enjoy categorizing.  In fact, many a psychological study indicate our brain naturally desires to put things into categories, to organize things and find relationships between new objects and those already stored in our brain.

Unfortunately, I don’t have an easy answer for you. This hasn’t been a quick and easy process for me. It takes intuition and learning about your own body and how it reacts to different things. My journey has 100% been about how things make me feel. Dairy makes my stomach hurt, no more of that. Meat doesn’t taste good, and has repercussions if we eat too much; no bueno.  Raw food makes me feel AH-MAZING… so I tend to eat as much of it as I can. Too much processed or cooked food makes me want to take a nap and not feel alive: NAH, I’ll drop that from my eating regime. We must learn to listen to our internal mechanisms. Just as women “know” when they are pregnant before seeing a physician, no doctor, health coach or expert can lead you 100%. You are your own expert!

The only advice I will give is to listen to your own body, figure out what works for you and to attempt to reduce the amount of red meat you consume (for health and environmental reasons). The red meat you eat today, will absolutely affect your children’s generation, either directly or indirectly. My dad’s health (his cholesterol) affected me by making me scared and more aware of the health implications.  This statistic makes me happy:

“More than a quarter of people say they eat less meat than they did five years ago. There is a shifting change in the diet,” says Ms Gellatley.

For more info on the benefits to eating organic, local food and more details on eating red meat, read the follow two posts:

Natural organic food explained

Eating meat, global warming and the environment

Generally this is the way my conversations pan out:

Person:”So what do you eat? are you a vegan?”

ME: “well, I am mostly vegan but I eat fish.”

Person: “Wait, whaaattt??”

ME: “I avoid dairy and don’t eat any food that walks around on land. I eat anything that comes from the sea, including fish.”

Person: “But, aren’t you raw?”

ME: “I mostly eat raw. I gravitate mostly towards raw, fresh, organic foods. But if I’m at restaurant with family or friends or on vacation, I’ll eat cooked foods like a piece of baked fish or steamed veggies.”

Person: “I’ve figured it out. You’re a vegetarian, then.”

ME: “No. I don’t eat dairy, and vegetarians do. Plus I eat fish, and vegetarians tend not to eat fish.”

Person: “OHHHH I Get it. You’re a flexitarian!”

ME: “Sure. I’m whatever makes it easiest for you.”

Are you 100% raw?

No, I am not completely raw. I consume a high percentage of raw food, probably somewhere between 75-85%. I will eat steamed veggies, quinoa, brown rice or a piece of sprouted toast with almond butter. If I go out to eat with friends I will have a piece of broiled or steamed fish with veggies and I have quite the sweet tooth. I’ve been known to polish off a fair amount of dessert, but I’ve learned to limit this over time because it just doesn’t make me feel good. Within an hour of eating the sugary dessert I remember why I don’t eat that way every day. I usually share a dessert and then I feel fine, I’m all for moderation of things we enjoy, not restricting.

Are you a vegan?

I probably eat fish once a week, so I’m not a vegan. I’m careful to research the latest eco-friendly and safe options for fish so that I don’t support any sort of negative treatment. It isn’t necessarily an ethical decision, overall I don’t like the taste of meat or the health negatives associated, like high cholesterol and high saturated fats.

When I moved to Los Angeles 7 years ago, I became much more aware of my likes and dislikes, and much more educated about the environmental impact created by eating meat. There is ample evidence in peer-reviewed scientific journals that mammals experience “not just pain, but also mental suffering including fear, anticipation, foreboding, anxiety, stress, terror and trauma,” says Prof Andrew Linzey, director of the Oxford Centre for Animal Ethics and author of Why Animal Suffering Matters. I would go to the farmers Market in Hollywood every Sunday and talk to people in the community and learn. I decided that within myself, I prefer not to potentially bring that emotional poison into my own being, but I absolutely don’t judge others that do. I’ve known since I was a child that I have an extreme sensitivity towards others and energies, and I may just be hyper sensitive to these feelings about animals as well.

I wear leather boots and have a beautiful leather bag, both from a trip to Argentina. My husband’s cousins own a leather company there. I consume raw honey and bee pollen. I make sure all the honey and bee pollen is from a good source where the bees are treated carefully, from local bee farmers. They never transport the bees to pollinate commercial corps, and they embrace traditional, local in-season-only, low stress beekeeping methods that help keep the bees healthy.

Vegan/Vegetarian/Pescatarian/Raw-Pick one!!!!

People enjoy categorizing.  In fact, many a psychological study indicate our brain naturally desires to put things into categories, to organize things and find relationships between new objects and those already stored in our brain.

Unfortunately, I don’t have an easy answer for you. This hasn’t been a quick and easy process for me. It takes intuition and learning about your own body and how it reacts to different things. My journey has 100% been about how things make me feel. Dairy makes my stomach hurt, no more of that. Meat doesn’t taste good, and has repercussions if we eat too much; no bueno.  Raw food makes me feel AH-MAZING… so I tend to eat as much of it as I can. Too much processed or cooked food makes me want to take a nap and not feel alive: NAH, I’ll drop that from my eating regime. We must learn to listen to our internal mechanisms. Just as women “know” when they are pregnant before seeing a physician, no doctor, health coach or expert can lead you 100%. You are your own expert!

The only advice I will give is to listen to your own body, figure out what works for you and to attempt to reduce the amount of red meat you consume (for health and environmental reasons). The red meat you eat today, will absolutely affect your children’s generation, either directly or indirectly. My dad’s health (his cholesterol) affected me by making me scared and more aware of the health implications.  This statistic makes me happy:

“More than a quarter of people say they eat less meat than they did five years ago. There is a shifting change in the diet,” says Ms Gellatley.

For more info on the benefits to eating organic, local food and more details on eating red meat, read the follow two posts:

Natural organic food explained

Eating meat, global warming and the environment

New Year’s resolutions. What does this even mean? Let’s make it mean something to you, something tangible and real.

It’s easy to blurt out some grand intentions for the New Year in between swigs of champagne, but we all know they fall short just as the hangover kicks in the following day.

Here is an absolutely grand way to create and manifest a New Years resolution that will stick!

Firstly, grab a pen and a piece of paper. Now, find a quiet place and really take a moment to write down your resolutions, or as we Yogi’s call it: “setting your intention (or intentions) for the new year”.

Now, intentions have two categories: Uber Intention and Specific Intention.

“Uber Intention” is the big one:…I want to “find the one”, I want to lose 25 pounds, or I want to walk on the moon, run a marathon…. Just write all the wishes, dreams, uber intentions that come to mind down on paper. Have fun with it, the sky is the limit and an uber intention is never to big.

After you feel you have a good amount on paper, your ready to get more specific.

I say to my clients in personal training, THE MORE SPECIFIC YOU GET, THE MORE RESULTS YOU GET. Simple phrase; huge impact. So, look at your uber intentions and see if you can narrow the list down to one, maybe two tops. For example, you may have written down: quit smoking, lose weight, stop being so nervous, find a new job. If you look at those entries closely, all those sub-categories are really saying “improve personal well being”. So, take the Uber Intention of improving personal well being and now create specific intentions to support and create your Uber Intention.

How? Simple, just make another list. You will basically bring back some of your previous ideas and they will become your specific intentions. Example: lose weight, quit smoking, etc.

So, here you go, you are already mapping a plan and it will probably take less then ten minutes.

OK, now here is the good stuff – stay with me.

Once you have a pretty clear outline of your uber intention and specific intentions, you now need to create sub-categories with more specific intentions.

Example: two specific intentions for losing weight would be:

1. Eat better or 2. Exercise.

Then, sub-categories would be:

1. Specific diet and 2. Specific exercise plan … and so on and so on.

You get the idea

Just keep repeating this mantra as you get more specific and create the blue print to your New Year’s Transformation!!

Key Point: you will find that when you are writing, you will start feeling and connecting to your intention.

I mentioned that you will start to feel resistance to your plan in the middle of writing it. Totally expected. This feeling is your self-commitment and inner truth coming out.

Let me explain: if you write down “lose weight”, then getting more specific you would write down “exercise”. Then, getting even more specific, you would write down “go to the gym 5 days a week”.

This may hit a trigger in you. “Can I really go to the gym 5 days a week?” you might say to yourself.

It may look good on paper, but far from reality. Sure 5 days a week of exercise is great and will help you lose weight, but if you can’t follow through on this commitment why write it down? So, clearly this is the moment of inner truth and establishing self-commitment.

Here is what you do: Feel it out. If 5 days a week, you know, is unrealistic… then how about one day?

You might say to yourself, “oh, that’s too easy – of course I can do that – I do that already. I go twice a week”. Then how about three? Or maybe four? If you concentrate, you will feel the right number. In this case, it’s three. It’s a realistic commitment that you can stick to and it should feel right.

Now that’s the secret. Once you feel the right amount, stick to it. You just made a commitment to yourself… take it seriously.

MAKE IT YOUR LAW!!!!!

Another thing to throw in, as well, is make a commitment for only two weeks at a time.

If any of your commitments need adjusting, just know it’s only a two week commitment so you don’t get overwhelmed and you are always moving forward.

Create your Uber intention and support it with specific intentions and so on.

Happy New Year from the Philosophie!!

After visiting San Francisco about 5 times in the past 2 years knowing fully well about Cafe Gratitude, I finally made it. And it was more than worth the wait.

cut to today: walking about 20 blocks, taking the Bart and 2 buses, I arrived. I am here.

it’s no wonder it’s such a challenge for people to stay healthy, and especially raw, while traveling. Most people won’t endure the above trek in order to achieve a healthy meal.

After arriving… again after ordering, and while eating…and once again after I am finished: I feel such gratitude.

I feel thankful for this beautiful food, for the love and intention that goes into every bite and sip, for the gracious and kind staff, for small details such as the Question of the Day (today’s: What are you devoted to?) for The Present Moment, and for my deep awareness of my body and my health to bring me to such a conscious place for lunch.

Here’s what I ordered: ‘I Am Healthy” Green Veggie Juice, followed by “I Am Giving” Asian Kale Salad with Teriyaki Almonds, sea vegetables and sesame seeds. For dessert (you can’t skip dessert when doing a review for a restaurant-it wouldn’t be fair) I had the raw Pecan Pie called “I Am Perfect” with Pecans and Dates and a Macadamia nut crust. mmmm. Afterward, while walking around the beautiful store, letting my food digest and my heart absorb my surroundings, I sipped on a cup of mint green tea with ginger and spices. (“I Am Charmed”)

I consider it a treat to be in such an amazing environment. I definitely don’t take it for granted. Every time I walk in such a place, i feel humble and gracious.

I feel at home here. I can sit Indian style like I would at home. I can ask questions that matter to me and know that they will be acknowledged and respected. There is a lot of love being felt here… the staff just had a group hug, for example. This is exactly how life is in my bubble, in my head, in my heart.

For now, all i can say is that until I can create my own sanctuary, my own yoga studio-juice bar-restaurant-safe place…

I’ll be venturing to Cafe Gratitude to fulfill these desires.